My Specialty

“I help you get your love life RIGHT!”

And my *specialty* if I had to describe what it is that I do best, it would be:

“I help you know YOU so well that you never “lose yourself” again, you KNOW a quality man when you see one, and you ONLY date men with long-term POTENTIAL!”

And the good thing about that is:

You get to love your life NOW, with or without a man in it! Because: 1) you know who you are, 2) you spend your time doing what you love, and 3) you only date men with POTENTIAL, which means you never feel frustrated (by men or anything else) and you inevitably find the most amazing, trustworthy, perfect-for-YOU, commitment-minded man EVAH! ;)

Here’s how we’ll get you there:

I help you know YOU so well you never “lose yourself” again:

I’ll help you understand WHY you behave the way that you do.

For some people the “why” isn’t important. In fact, they don’t even want to know WHY, they just want to know HOW to change. Personally, I’ve always wanted to know WHY. Because when I know why I am the way that I am I have the opportunity to release the past and recreate the new. If you’re not a person who cares about the WHY, we may not be a good fit for one another.

I’ll help you release the unhealthy patterns that you keep repeating.

I’m a big fan of Carl Jung and the archetypes of the collective unconscious. Once again, this gives you more insight into the “why” of your behavior and I’ve always felt that when you have this understanding, it’s easier to release the “stuff” that isn’t serving you. You get to realize that you aren’t “bad” or “wrong” for your behavior, you are simply replaying unconscious behaviors and attitudes of the “collective.” And the moment you make that fact conscious, is the same moment that you have the chance to choose something different.

I help you know a QUALITY MAN when you see one:

I’ll help you de-bunk the sabotaging thoughts that derail your goals.

I’m a big fan of Aaron Beck and William Glasser, the founders of Cognitive Behavior Therapy and Reality Therapy, respectively. For years people have learned to love their bodies, put an end to disordered eating, rise out of depression, stop feeling anxious, quit addictions, and get their needs met in their relationships - because of these two therapies. Gone are the days of falling in love with the first guy that pays you any attention, or feeling like this is the “best” you’ll ever get so you might as well settle. Let’s de-bunk your sabotaging thoughts so that you can feel confident AND content while holding out for the GOODS!

I help you ONLY date men with long-term potential:

I’ll help you discern boyfriend material from baloney!

I am a big fan of Marni Battista and her Dating with Dignity philosophy, which I proudly use as the theory guiding my relationship coaching work. Marni has developed amazing coaching systems for women wanting to fall in love and I LOVE her process. She’s done an incredible job of characterizing the different MANimals you will encounter while dating so that you know how to steer clear of the tire-kickers and B-Line for Mr. Boyfriend Material – only! The result? Long-term, blissful, fun, refreshing, EASY love with the guy that’s made JUST FOR YOU!